" Self-Confidence is the key to success "
The answer is Yes because the very first thing is self-confidence and self-possession to take any decision in your life. If someone doesn't have both things they don't succeed or get the desired thing in their life.
Now the question is that from where both things come or rooted in your mind?
This quality comes from your brought up, from surroundings, under great mentorship, under the guidance of your parents, from a positive mindset, from mindset to do better every day, positive thoughts, by helping others, sharing materialistic things with others, easy to discuss every matter from childhood, good communication with someone who listens and guides, who point out and correct your mistakes positively and last but not the least strong relationship with Allah.
First of all, you need the confidence to do everything in your life. For example, if you want to start your study you need the confidence to pursue your career or choose your favorite field. If you don't have the guts to stick to your goal you lose at the very first step.
Secondly, when you choose the right profession for yourself then it is time to struggle to achieve the fixed goal. You might face many difficulties on your way like backlash from relatives, sometimes from your parents too, friends left you, teacher demotivates you, etc. So at that time, it is your inner confidence or self-esteem that pushes you to move forward towards your destination.
Otherwise, you lose your confidence at that point to thinks that it is not the right choice or the right profession for you. You can get affected by negative people, negative comments, backlash from people, weak relationship with God, and if you don't have any guidelines, mentor, or someone who listen to your problems to find out the exact cause why you are not doing well in your favorite profession or perform well in your academic career or in personal life.
The greatest barrier to success is the fear of failure. (Even Goran Eriksson)
Thirdly, if you confidently pursue or continue your journey then you will definitely succeed and achieve your goal.
In the second Scenario, You discontinue pursuing your favorite profession or don't struggle for your dream for any reason or lose to quit your journey towards your dream or so many other reasons.
Then you lose your self-confidence and cannot build again the level of confidence or self believe because that put you back from doing anything in your life, you always thought you couldn't do anything in the life of your choice because you left your dream.
It is hard to fail, but it is worse never to have tried to succeed. (Theodore Roosevelt)
You start negative thinking, you lose self-esteem, you lose hope after not getting the desired thing, you find negativity in everything, your perceptive totally changed, you only a loser at rest of the life if you don't come out of the trauma, you lost your decision making power and don't able to think positive if you don't get a chance to stand again.
Personal Experience
I am sharing my experience with you all, I was affected by people's thoughts and words. I lose hope at the very first step by thinking that the profession was not made for me, Yes also I was afraid of failure. I was thinking at one initial point.
At that time that profession was my dream and I always struggle for it, I study a lot, my day and night was very great because I am growing with my heart's desire( dream) but suddenly I took the wrong decision of switching totally changed field and lost achieving my very first goal.
I really feel sorry for myself about my decision after some time but it is useless to cry over spilled milk. My journey not ended but my real struggle started at that point, I accepted the new challenge and continues my journey and reached that point. Alhamdulillah.
I have seen another beautiful dream, start struggling, and I hope I'll achieve it one day IN SHAA ALLAH.
A dream if you reached it or not makes life great. But the only thing is consistency, self-confidence, self-power, and self-belief.
To succeed in life, you need two things Ignorance and Confidence. (Mark Twain)
Conclusions and Suggestions
So, it is my very faithful opinion to stick to your heart's desire and give your 100% to achieve what you dream for? go for endless struggle so at the end you don't have any regret in your life.
If you dream for then must stick at any cost, don't get affected by people, don't let people harm your self-believing power, ignore negative people, don't lose hope, get connected with Allah, try to live with positive people to get positive energy.
I hope you will be successful in your life, get the desire the things, reached your destinations, and might get what you really dream for or struggle day and night to get them.
Just believe yourself, recognize your abilities, use your skills and tell the world through performing that thing because it is famous saying that action speaks louder than words.




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